During the next several weeks, I will explore practical ways to heal generational trauma. Many of the methods and practices were shared in both of my books: Rage that Spans Generations and Faces in the Smoke. This week, we discuss: Why…
Healing is not about erasing the past—it’s about understanding it and choosing a different future. By addressing generational trauma, we can change how we relate to ourselves, our families, and our communities. Each step toward healing creates a ripple effect,…
Yes, it can—but it requires intentional effort and often professional support. Healing generational trauma involves both individual and collective work, including:
Generational trauma is transmitted in several ways:Behavioral modeling: Children observe and internalize the coping mechanisms of their caregivers.Communication patterns: Families may avoid talking about painful events, creating a culture of silence and mystery.Epigenetics: Research suggests trauma can even affect gene expression, influencing stress…
In Faces in the Smoke and Rage that Spans Generations, 14-year-old Aponia engages with a trauma-informed therapist to deal with the anger that she is not equipped to handle and grounding.
When you’re triggered or overwhelmed, use tools that regulate emotion rather than suppress it.Grounding: Feel your bare feet, describe your surroundings, breathe deeply.Music: Play songs that comfort or express what you feel.Touch: Hold a soft object, wrap yourself in a blanket – physical…
In the coming weeks, I will share coping strategies for personal emotional healing from generational trauma and how I’ve dealt with them in my books. Acknowledge and Witness Your Story In my book Faces in the Smoke, the protagonist, Aponia, aged…
This is one of the hardest myths to shake. Experiencing trauma doesn’t mean you’re weak or damaged beyond repair. It means you’ve been through something hard – and your mind and body did what they had to do to protect…
If you’ve ever had someone say this to you, let me be clear: healing doesn’t follow a calendar. Trauma recovery isn’t about toughing it out or pretending it didn’t happen. It’s about learning how to feel safe again, piece by…
Nope. Trauma lives in your body, too. That racing heart when you hear a sudden noise, the tension in your shoulders, or even the way you avoid certain places – those can all be signs that your nervous system is…
